Introduction
Autism spectrum condition is a neurodevelopmental condition that is characterised by challenges with both verbal and non-verbal social interactions and repetitive behaviours (Atherton et al.
2022). It has a global prevalence of around 1–2% (Zeidan et al.
2022). Autistic individuals are at risk of having co-occurring mental health conditions (Lai et al.
2019); for example, one study showed that around 70% of autistic children meet the diagnostic criteria for at least one psychiatric condition (Simonoff et al.
2008). Emotional (internalising) problems, such as being anxious, withdrawn or depressed and behavioural (externalising) problems, including being disruptive, hyperactive and aggressive, have been shown to be experienced at elevated rates in autistic children (Mandy et al.
2022) and have been linked with later mental health issues (Hammer et al.
2017; Simonoff et al.
2012). An important area of investigation is the contribution of the environment (e.g., home, school, neighbourhood) for the development of such co-occurring difficulties as a potential target for intervention.
Parents and parenting practices play an important role in the onset and maintenance of children’s mental health but research into the parenting environment for autistic children’s outcomes is limited. This may be due to a historical misunderstanding that autism was caused by “cold’’ parenting (Evans,
2013), making it a controversial topic of exploration and discussion. However, given the elevated rates of emotional and behavioural difficulties, parents and other carers of autistic children are often faced with unique challenges and burdens (Weir et al.
2020) that may shape how they approach parenting. Stress associated with parenting autistic children may put parents at risk of psychological distress (Estes et al.
2013) which is linked to harsher parenting (Shawler & Sullivan
2017). Harsh parenting refers to coercive acts and negative emotional expressions that parents direct towards their child including both verbal aggression (e.g., shouting or telling off) and physical aggression (e.g., smacking or spanking), conceptualised along a continuum of parenting, with child maltreatment at the extreme end (Gershoff,
2002). It is associated with risk of emotional and behavioural difficulties, both in the short-term and long-term (Jaffee et al.
2004). Conversely, a parenting environment where there is sensitivity, warmth and consistency is seen as promotive of children’s emotional and behavioural adjustment.
In general population samples, harsh parenting has been associated with conduct, aggression, hyperactivity and inattentiveness problems (Bender et al.
2007; Taylor et al.
2010; Vostanis et al.
2006) and, in fewer studies, it has also been associated with emotional problems, including anxiety and depression (Hecker et al.
2016; Rajyaguru et al.
2019). However, transactional models of development suggest that parents and children mutually influence each other. Coercion theory (Patterson,
2002) suggests that parent–child interactions can lead to coercive dynamics, where both parent and child may reinforce behavioural problems, resulting in increased difficulties. Bidirectional associations have indeed been found between harsh parenting and behavioural problems in typically developing children (Speyer et al.
2022) where both parents’ and children’s behaviours mutually reinforce each other. We would also expect these dynamics to operate for autistic children and their parents as well.
A small body of literature (Bader & Barry,
2014; Dieleman et al.
2017 ; Greenberg et al.
2006; Lin et al.
2023; Lindsey et al.
2020; Maljaars et al.
2014; McRae et al.
2018) has examined the relationship between harsh parenting practices and emotional and behavioural outcomes in autistic children, finding harsh parenting to be negatively related to behavioural problems and, to a lesser extent, to emotional problems in autistic children. However, most studies used cross-sectional data, finding associations between harsh parenting and externalising problems (Lin et al.
2023; Maljaars et al.
2014; McRae et al.
2018). One cross-sectional study also found a relationship with internalising problems (McRae et al.
2018) and in another study similar results were observed longitudinally (Lindsey et al.
2020). A notable study of the reciprocal associations between negative controlling parenting (capturing discipline and harsh punishment) and child adjustment problems, in a sample of 139 autistic children over a 9-year period, found bidirectional associations with externalising problems but only parent effects on internalising problems (Dieleman et al.
2017); Greenberg et al. (
2006) observed similar bidirectional effects, while Bader and Barry (
2014) found a parent (criticism/hostility) effect only on externalising problems.
Taken together, few studies have examined the longitudinal relationship between harsh parenting and emotional and behavioural trajectories in autistic children, helping us to understand how harsh parenting may relate to changes in problems as children grow older. Moreover, investigating the potential impact of harsh parenting for autistic children’s adjustment can also contribute to our broader understanding of the parenting environment and its role in the development of emotional and behavioural difficulties in autistic children, to inform the identification of effective parenting interventions for these problems.
In the present study, we used data from a U.K. general population cohort of families with young children. We investigated the relationship between maternal harsh parenting, defined here as smacking, shouting, and telling off, and autistic children’s emotional and behavioural trajectories from ages 3 to 7. We examined, in autistic children, whether maternal harsh parenting was related to trajectories of total difficulties (both emotional and behavioural together) as well as emotional and behavioural difficulties across ages 3 to 7, adjusting for potential confounders. We hypothesised that children exposed to maternal harsh parenting would have - concurrently and longitudinally - more emotional and behavioural difficulties relative to children without this exposure.
Discussion
Harsh parenting, the use of verbal and physical aggressive acts and emotional expressions by parents towards their children, has been studied in great depth within typically developing child samples, but we know little about the role of harsh parenting in autistic children’s co-occurring adjustment problems. Our study examined the role of harsh parenting in the trajectories of emotional and behavioural difficulties in autistic children in a general population study. We found that harsh parenting relates to behavioural difficulties in young autistic children. On average, autistic children had higher scores in broad emotional and behavioural difficulties which increased from ages 3 to 7 compared to non-autistic children. This finding could indicate that compared to the general population, autistic children may have higher rates of co-occurring psychiatric problems (Maljaars et al.
2014; Midouhas et al.
2013; Simonoff et al.
2008). Comparable amounts of harsh parenting appeared to be used by mothers of autistic and non-autistic children, consistent with Maljaars et al. (
2014). Interestingly, given autistic children exhibited, on average, higher levels of behavioural (externalising) difficulties compared to non-autistic children, it could be inferred that mothers of autistic children are less likely to use harsh parenting relative to exhibited behavioural difficulties, indicating that mothers of autistic children are less likely to use harsh parenting practices at home. However, it could suggest that mothers of autistic children interpret behaviours differently and thus do not see the need for harsher forms of parenting (Reese et al.
2005). It is also crucial to emphasise, however, that interpretations of these comparisons should be considered with caution as these comparisons are not statistically based; thus, further research is needed to explore this.
As expected, harsh parenting was positively associated with both total difficulties and externalising problems in autistic children, with externalising problems likely driving the association found with total difficulties. The relationship between harsh parenting and externalising behaviours has been replicated within typically developing samples (Lansford et al.
2011; Speyer et al.
2022; Vostanis et al.
2006). This is also reflected in similar work within the autistic population (Baker et al.
2020; Lindsey et al.
2020; Maljaars et al.
2014). In our supplementary analysis, a comparable association was also observed in the non-autistic sample, but at a smaller magnitude. While making comparisons with other studies is not straightforward, as there are a range of definitions of harsh parenting, our study provides much needed longitudinal evidence that harsh parenting is positively associated with externalising problems in autistic children, suggesting that harsh parenting my influence the development of behavioural problems in autistic children.
Notably, at high levels of harsh parenting, autistic individuals’ trajectories of total difficulties (both emotional and behavioural difficulties) increased from “borderline” at age 3, to an “abnormal” level by age 7. Yet under low levels of harsh parenting, all scores remained in the “normal” range, indicating the risk of clinically relevant mental health problems in those who experience high levels of harsh parenting (Bryant et al.
2020). The scores of externalising problems varied between low and high levels of harsh parenting, with high levels of harsh parenting resulting in higher scores of externalising problems, further emphasising the potential impact harsh parenting has on externalising problems (Baker et al.
2020; Chang et al.
2003; McRae et al.
2018; Pinquart,
2017). Yet this was not seen for internalising problems.
Coercion theory proposes a potential mechanism through which externalising problems may develop in children (Patterson,
2002). It is possible that autistic children with behavioural problems also elicit harsh parenting from their parents, as shown in general population samples (Speyer et al.
2022). Harsh parenting might reinforce rather than simply increase problem behaviours, leading to elevated externalising behaviours. This is shown in autistic populations by Lucyshyn et al. (
2004) who undertook an observational study and by (Dieleman et al.
2017) who looked longitudinally at the bidirectional relationship between parenting and maladaptive behaviours in autistic children. In addition, emotional regulation challenges have also been suggested as a mechanism through which harsh parenting may lead to externalising problems (Chang et al.
2003; Goagoses et al.
2022). While positive parenting acts to teach and improve a child’s self-control and behaviour through improving emotional regulation capacity (Goagoses et al.
2022), harsh parenting usually does not facilitate this and has been suggested to result in worse emotional regulation capabilities in children (Chang et al.
2003). For example, a study involving autistic children found that higher respiratory sinus arrhythmia reactivity, a potential marker for emotional regulation, affected the link between negative parenting and externalising behaviours (Baker et al.
2020), suggesting that emotional regulation may be involved in the behavioural difficulties exhibited in this population. As such, future research should examine potential bidirectional associations between parenting behaviours and child externalising problems, but also the role of emotion regulation.
Autistic children’s total difficulties increased over time, while our supplementary analysis of non-autistic children’s trajectories showed that they decreased under both high and low levels of harsh parenting. Moreover, irrespective of harsh parenting level non-autistic children’s scores remained in the normal range. While it is essential to acknowledge the sample size and gender composition difference between these groups, these findings could indicate different psychopathological pathways between autistic and non-autistic children. Previous research conducted with typically developing individuals and some autistic samples has demonstrated a positive correlation between harsh parenting and internalising problems in both cross-sectional (Hecker et al.
2016) and longitudinal (Rajyaguru et al.
2019; Speyer et al.
2022) studies, and in our supplementary analysis of the non-autistic sample this was also observed. Contrary to our hypothesis, this association in autistic individuals was not significant and, whilst this finding reflects similar studies looking at harsh parenting (Maljaars et al.
2014; McRae et al.
2018), it is not consistent with all studies (Dieleman et al.
2017; Lindsey et al.
2020). However, one must be cautious when drawing this conclusion due to over-representation of males compared to females in the autistic samples and low internal consistency of internalising problems in early sweeps. However, given females typically have higher levels of internalising problems compared to males, differences in the sex composition of autistic samples may have affected the observed results (Gutman & Codiroli McMaster,
2020). Nevertheless, it is important to elucidate why there may be differences in the drivers of internalising problems between autistic and non-autistic children.
This study had some notable limitations. Firstly, this is a correlational study and as such as we are unable to prove that maternal harsh parenting caused children to have more behavioural problems. Secondly, all measures were parent-reported and therefore could inflate correlations between them. Moreover, mothers may not want to disclose negative parenting behaviours due to social desirability. Thirdly, this study relied upon maternal harsh parenting, leaving out fathers’ harsh parenting, given unavailability of father harsh parenting data in the MCS. As such, future research should explore the joint role of mothers’ and fathers’ harsh parenting as it relates to child difficulties. Fourthly, the SDQ is made up of domains which can reflect core elements of autism, specifically peer problems. Fifthly, our harsh parenting and internalising problems scales had only adequate internal consistency and therefore the findings should be interpreted with caution.
While the study has several limitations, it also has considerable strengths. Our study has a large sample of autistic children which was drawn from a population sample rather than a clinical sample demonstrating how mental health problems unfold from a real-world perspective. Additionally, the use of a longitudinal design facilitated an investigation of how harsh parenting may relate to trajectories of emotional and behavioural difficulties across childhood. Our findings highlight that harsh parenting - smacking, shouting, and telling off - are likely to elevate autistic children’s behavioural problems, indicating that carers may benefit from reducing negative ways of responding to their child when they misbehave. Future research might explore these relationships considering fathers as well and in a sample with a greater number of autistic female children. Nevertheless, recognising this association and its potential outcomes empowers parents and caregivers to embrace beneficial parenting approaches that could ultimately ameliorate or prevent such challenges, thereby promoting the well-being of their autistic children. Additionally, identifying potential risk factors for mental health concerns in their children could ensure that these families access the best support available.
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