Globally, wars and political violence are still an integral part of the lives of millions of children (Belsky,
2008; Denov & Akesson,
2016; Feldman et al.,
2013; Kadir et al.,
2019). For these children, ongoing wars, military operations, and terrorism have been a reality in their lives since they were born. The current study focuses on mothers and young children in the unique condition of living in the context of the armed conflict in the Gaza vicinity, an area in the southern part of Israel, several kilometers from the border between Israel and the Gaza Strip. The population living in this area has been experiencing ongoing missile attacks within civilian surroundings for decades (prior to the 2023 War). For example, between 2018 and 2019, over 2,000 rockets have been launched from Gaza to this area (Israeli Home Front Command,
2020). To warn and protect the residents, alarms are sound to notify about approaching missiles, giving residents in this area between 7 and 15 s to find shelter, a particularly challenging task for parents of young children who are not independently mobile. Moreover, the proximity to the border also exposes residents to the sounds of Israeli military operations in Gaza (e.g., warplane movement and sounds of bombing). Consequently, residents of this area are likely to be more alert and attentive to sounds, and their auditory system may be more sensitive to noises that inform about risk (Metzner et al.,
2018). In this study, we examine whether this exposure is related to parental processing of another type of auditory alarm in the context of parenting—
child cries—and thereby to child adjustment.
Studies conducted around the world indicate that exposure to any type of armed conflict may bear severe consequences for children of all ages, ranging from experiencing stress and exhibiting behavior problems to developing psychopathological disorders, such as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, and anxiety (for a meta-analysis in the age range of 5–17 years, see Attanayake et al.,
2009). For example, long-term negative effects were found among children (aged 5–8 years old) exposed to war in Croatia, including aggressive and prosocial behavior (Keresteš,
2006). Studies conducted in the Gaza vicinity indicate that between 33% and 38% of infants and preschool children (age range: 1.5-5 years) living in this area exhibit partial or full PTSD symptoms (Feldman et al.,
2013; Feldman & Vengrober,
2011; Pat-Horenczyk et al.,
2012); these are likely underestimates of the impact of exposure on young children, as trauma due to exposure to armed conflict may not necessarily present as distinct forms of psychopathology and can manifest in widespread difficulties in different developmental domains (Cohen & Shulman,
2019; Cummings et al.,
2017), including poor sleep quality, eating difficulties, psychosomatic symptoms, and behavior problems (Dybdahl,
2001; Masten & Narayan,
2012; Slone & Mann,
2016; Yahav,
2011). This suggests that the effects of exposure to armed conflict should be assessed by addressing broad developmental problems (Alkhatib et al.,
2007; Dybdahl,
2001; Masten & Narayan,
2012; Pat-Horenczyk & Schiff,
2019; Sadeh et al.,
2008; Slone & Mann,
2016), including externalizing (e.g., aggressive behaviors) and internalizing problems (e.g., fear, anxiety, affect dysregulation, and social withdrawal; Alkhatib et al.,
2007; Punamäki,
2002; Yahav,
2011; Zamir et al.,
2020).
Exposure to violence and combat can have prolonged effects on young children’s maladjustment (Keresteš,
2006; Laor et al.,
2001), which may be exaggerated under chronic exposure (Slone & Mann,
2016). In areas where the exposure is continuous and may last for years, such as in the Gaza vicinity, chronic exposure to armed conflict was found to have more negative implications on young children’s (0–6 years old) emotional development and rates of internalizing and externalizing problems, as compared to acute exposure (Lahad & Leykin,
2010; Pat-Horenczyk & Schiff,
2019; Pat-Horenczyk et al.,
2013; Slone & Mann,
2016). A possible explanation is that under prolonged exposure, children and parents live for longer periods in an unpredictable and undefined environment, which may elicit chronic stress (Cohen & Shulman,
2019). As children’s first years are particularly formative for subsequent development, such early exposure to armed conflict may have a long-lasting effect on future developmental processes, milestones, and achievements (Chu & Lieberman,
2010; Lieberman,
2011). For example, Alkhatib and colleagues (
2007) suggested that exposure to chronic armed conflict stress in toddlerhood may interfere with the normative developmental process of gaining autonomy and self-confidence (separation-individuation) characteristic of this age by elevating fears of separation from their caregivers.
Alongside the widespread impact of trauma on risk for child maladjustment, some children show resilience and do not exhibit mental health symptoms or other developmental difficulties (Cummings et al.,
2017; Masten & Narayan,
2012). To understand patterns of risk and resilience, researchers have suggested applying a
process-oriented perspective (Cummings et al.,
2014,
2017): rather than focusing solely on child developmental
outcomes, there is a need for a wider systemic approach that takes into account
processes and
pathways occurring in the various circuits of a child’s life that may buffer against or elevate the risk for child maladjustment (Feldman & Vengrober,
2011; Masten,
2017). As understanding how developmental processes are modulated by exposure to armed conflict at a very young age is crucial for supporting children’s well-being (Cohen & Shulman,
2019; Feldman & Vengrober,
2011), we focus on direct and indirect effects on child adjustment.
Parenting as a Main Mediator in the Context of Exposure to Armed Conflict
Cumulative evidence shows that young children are affected not only by direct exposure to armed conflict, but also by the effect of exposure on their primary caregivers (Betancourt & Khan,
2008; Cummings et al.,
2017; Masten & Narayan,
2012; Pat-Horenczyk et al.,
2012; Qouta et al.,
2008). In their systematic review, Slone and Mann (
2016) found that among various studies conducted in war or armed-conflict zones with children aged 0–6 years, there was a strong link between child adjustment and parental functioning and mental health. Interestingly, child maladjustment was more strongly related to parental factors than the severity of exposure itself (Betancourt & Khan,
2008; Zamir et al.,
2020).
Parenting in armed-conflict zones is challenging. Parents exposed to armed conflict are vulnerable to psychopathology, such as PTSD, depression, and anxiety (Devakumar et al.,
2014; Feldman et al.,
2013; Pat-Horenczyk et al.,
2012). In the Gaza vicinity, because missile attacks are sporadic, parents are in chronic uncertainty and have to adapt to unexpected events repeatedly, putting them in a constant state of vigilance and alertness (Cohen & Shulman,
2019). This chronic load may lead to loss of mental resources and result in feeling helplessness, which can impair the parent’s ability to (1) offer secure states of mind to the child and (2) regulate their own emotions (Cohen & Shulman,
2019; Sagi-Schwartz,
2012).
Chronic exposure to armed conflict can disrupt family daily dynamics, communication patterns, and parent-child relationship (Pat-Horenczyk et al.,
2013). Mothers living in conflict zones may be at higher risk for less optimal parenting behavior, potentially affecting their child’s adjustment. For example, parental coercive behaviors were found to mediate the link between maternal mental health and child behavior problems when living in an armed-conflict zone (Zamir et al.,
2020). Aiming to understand the way prolonged exposure to armed conflict may impact parental perceptions and practices, and how these may affect child adjustments, the current study investigates a unique parental capacity that may be triggered and challenged when living in an area where parents and children need to count on auditory signals to protect themselves: parental reactions to child cry.
A Child’s Cry: Parental Perception and Responsiveness
We propose that the potential for increased auditory sensitivity due to prolonged armed conflict exposure may influence mothers’ perceptions of and reactions to children’s daily behaviors. One of the most relevant child behaviors is crying, which can be perceived as an “internal alarm” that activates the auditory system (Barr et al.,
2001; Zeskind & Lester,
1978) as well as fight-flight-or-freeze behaviors (Joosen et al.,
2013). As will be further elaborated below, parents of infants need to be attuned to infant cries, as important communicative signals that infants use to convey their needs (Bell & Ainsworth,
1972; Bowlby,
1982). As mentioned above, people living in Gaza vicinity are also likely to be highly attentive to auditory signals, and specifically their auditory system may be more alert and sensitive to noises that provide information on risk (Metzner et al.,
2018): with time and classical conditioning (Clark,
2004), sirens (or other sounds that resemble alarms) become threatening and invasive stimuli (Pat-Horenczyk et al.,
2012). This chronic exposure to auditory threat signals and the need to be alert and attend to them may have an impact on parental processing of infant cries, potentially mediating the link between exposure and child adjustment in early childhood. To further examine this idea, the link between maternal perception of child cry, perceived behavioral responding to cry, and child behavior problems were examined among mothers and children with high versus low exposure to armed conflict.
Crying is a universal primary behavior used by children for initial communication with caregivers, designed to elicit caregiving behavior by activating the caregiver’s attachment system to enhances proximity and meet the child’s needs (Bell & Ainsworth,
1972; Bowlby,
1982). According to Attachment Theory, when a crying child receives a sensitive response from their caregiver, healthy internal working models are developed (Bretherton,
1985; Gustafson et al.,
2017; Lahti et al.,
2019). At the same time, hearing a crying child can evoke negative feelings (such as stress, anxiety, and helplessness) that may impair the ability to respond sensitively and appropriately (Barr et al.,
2001; Hiraoka et al.,
2019; Joosen et al.,
2013b).
Cry processing can be conceptualized as having two dimensions:
perceptions of crying (cognitions) and
responsiveness to crying (behaviors).
Perceptions of crying consist of two different components: (1) auditory aversiveness—an acoustic component that relates to the auditory experience, and represents individual differences in auditory sensitivity when listening to the sound of crying and the difficulty of hearing a cry (Donovan et al.,
2005; Gustafson et al.,
2017; Joosen et al.,
2013a; Zeskind & Lester,
1978), and (2) perception of child distress—a psychological component that refers to how the sound of crying is interpreted, representing a parent’s concerns about his or her child’s physical or mental state, which may cause distress (Barr et al.,
2001; Sadeh et al.,
2016; Zeifman,
2003).
Responsiveness to crying refers to a behavioral component that addresses the ways parents intervene or respond to their crying child. Perceptions of cries and behavioral responsiveness to them are interrelated (Gustafson et al.,
2017); for example, Zeifman (
2003) found that parents who perceived the crying as urgent were likely to intervene earlier when hearing their child cry.
Previous studies have linked parental perceptions and responsiveness to child cry with various factors, including parental characteristics and psychopathology, child characteristics, and environmental factors (Donovan et al.,
2005; Hiraoka et al.,
2019; Lahti et al.,
2019; Riem et al.,
2011; Zeifman,
2003). For example, mothers who reported more difficulties in interpreting their child’s internal experiences reported and exhibited lower tolerance of infant crying when interacting with an inconsolable infant simulator doll (Rutherford et al.,
2015). In the context of threatening and dangerous environments, Joosen et al. (
2013) found an increased biological activation of defensive strategies through a fight-or-flight response while listening to cry, and that perceptions of cries as threatening were related to more hostile interpretations of child behaviors and harsh parenting among mothers of 12-months-old infants.
Importantly, parental responsiveness to child crying in the first year of life has been associated with various child outcomes, such as distress, sleeping problems, and sensorimotor development (Bretherton,
1985; Kahn et al.,
2018; Lahti et al.,
2019; Sadeh et al.,
2016), although some patterns appear contradictory in their directionality. On the one hand, from an attachment point of view, a quick parental response to child needs (as expressed by cry) is an appropriate co-regulation response to a signal aimed to elicit caregiving behavior (Sameroff,
2010). On the other hand, an immediate maternal response to child crying may be less regulated (Martin et al.,
2020) and potentially mitigate the child’s ability to develop self-regulation, resulting in more child regulation difficulties (Kahn et al.,
2018; Sadeh et al.,
2016). This seemingly contradictory pattern may be related to the nature and urgency of the distress context, as well as the child’s developmental stage and ability to cope by themselves. In the context of exposure to external chronic stress, as children need closer care from their parents with more direct regulation (Brom et al.,
2008), we suggest that a quick response would be more helpful, resulting in lower levels of child problem behavior.
Discussion
Children growing up in armed-conflict zones are at risk for maladjustment, not only through direct exposure to danger but also due to parental perceptions and behaviors that may be affected by the stressful, external, situation. In the Gaza vicinity, there is a unique situation in which families (who are otherwise representative of the general population) have been under unpredictable missile attacks for many years, placing them at high risk to their safety and security. Because these attacks are accompanied by alarms that warn the population, a high sensitivity to sounds indicating danger is crucial and can save lives. Therefore, the objectives of the current study were to examine whether children who are exposed to armed conflict over time are at higher risk for exhibiting behavior problems, and how parental perceptions and practices concerning cry are linked to child behavior problems.
The first hypothesis proposing group differences in child behavior problems was partially supported. Differences between the exposure groups in child behavior problems were found for externalizing behaviors but not for internalizing behaviors. Although significant, the effect size was small and should be interpreted with caution. Nonetheless, this pattern is consistent with past research (Slone & Mann,
2016), finding that children under high exposure to armed conflict have more externalizing behavior problems compared to children under low exposure, especially when exposed chronically like in the present sample.
In contrast, the groups did not differ in child internalizing problems, which is inconsistent with previous research commonly using the same scale (for a review, see Slone & Mann,
2016). Although this null effect should be interpreted with caution, the lack of effect may be related to the young age of the children and the unique characteristics of the current sample. First, children between the ages of 2–5 years tend to exhibit elevated internalizing behaviors on average (Gilliom & Shaw,
2004; Mathiesen et al.,
2009), which may dilute group differences. Second, mothers in the high-exposure group may be biased in their reporting of behaviors indicative of internalizing problems, such as clinging, separation anxiety, sudden changes in mood, and constant anxiety, as these may be perceived as “normal” reactions or behaviors when living under threatening conditions, and therefore mothers might not regard them as symptoms in their reporting. Finally, previous theories suggest that internalizing problems may arise in children in the context of emotionally unsupportive parenting (Gilliom & Shaw,
2004). As the current sample was characteristic of the general population in all other relevant aspects (e.g., low-risk in SES and social characteristics), it is likely that children received a supportive and safe care overall, even under chronic exposure to stress, and thus their internalizing symptoms were not affected.
The second hypothesis proposing group differences in maternal cry perceptions and responsiveness was partially confirmed. A significant difference between the groups was found for auditory aversiveness, but not for perception of child distress or maternal responsiveness to cry. These findings strengthen our assumption that mothers in the high-exposure group were more sensitive to the auditory-sensory aspect of the crying sound, possibly because they were more sensitized to sounds that may indicate danger. These results may suggest that parents who live in armed-conflict areas, characterized by auditory warnings, may develop a hypersensitivity to sounds, even when they know that some of the sounds they hear are not related to danger. Furthermore, it is known that the sound of crying is a particular sound that triggers the parental caring system (Bell & Ainsworth,
1972) and thus ensures a child’s survival. Our results raise the idea that when living in an armed-conflict zone, the parental caring system may be more easily activated due to the strong association between the sounds of the alarm and an imminent threat. As a result, mothers may develop high sensitivity to the sound of crying. Although significant, the effect size was small and thus should be interpreted with caution.
It is interesting to note that no significant differences were found for perception of child distress or maternal responsiveness to cry between the groups. It is possible that the impact of exposure may be primarily related to feelings elicited in the mother by the cries but may not impact the aspects of cry processing centered around the child’s state. Alternatively, the high-exposure groups’ sociodemographic characteristics may have impacted this as well, as despite living in an armed-conflict area, the sample had low social risk, resembling (in some aspects) parents in low-exposure areas.
Moving beyond group differences, our second aim was to investigate underlying processes in the relation between maternal factors and child outcomes in the context of exposure to armed conflict. Specifically, our third hypothesis addressed the indirect link between maternal cry perception and child behavior problems via maternal responsiveness to crying and examined whether the links varied by exposure group. Indeed, this indirect effect models were found to be significant, such that maternal perception of cry was associated with child behavior problems (both externalizing and internalizing problem behaviors) through maternal responsiveness to cry, only in the high-exposure group. Mothers who perceived the crying sounds as more aversive or perceived the child as more distressed responded more quickly to the cry. In the high-exposure group, when mothers responded faster, their children showed fewer behavior problems compared to mothers who responded slower to the crying sound. The link between maternal responsiveness and child behavior problems was not evident in the low-exposure group.
These findings are consistent with previous work that emphasized the important role of maternal factors as key elements in understanding child behavior problems when living in an armed-conflict zone (Zamir et al.,
2020). From an attachment point of view, the parent serves as a “safe haven” to which the child can return when experiencing distress (Bretherton,
1985). Because very young children are mostly dependent on their parents to regulate their emotions (Sameroff,
2010), maternal response to a child’s cry may be crucial for the child’s emotional regulation especially under external stressful situation (Brom et al.,
2008). Hence, when growing up in an environment in which missile attacks are part of everyday life, and warnings of the attacks comes are auditory (i.e., an alarm) and require an immediate reaction (i.e., 7–15 s), a maternal quick response may be lifesaving and is required when children experience fear and danger. Thus, a pattern of coping and mutual self-regulation based on prompt response is created (Pat-Horenczyk et al.,
2015; Sameroff,
2010). Furthermore, it seems that the need for an immediate maternal response, as seen by its association with child adjustment, is not limited only to the mother’s response during an external warning alarm, but may be generalized to more normative, everyday situations where her child expresses distress through crying.
It should be noted that in other studies, a less prompt response to infant cries was sometimes considered more adaptive (Kahn et al.,
2018; Martin et al.,
2020; Sadeh et al.,
2016). A possible explanation for the differences in the results is that in the context of an armed-conflict zone, mothers who react more quickly may provide their children with a better sense of protection that may, in turn, help them to regulate their fears. However, when living in a safe environment, an immediate parental reaction to a child’s cry may interrupt the developmental process of self-regulation and mitigates a child’s opportunity to regulate themselves independently (Kahn et al.,
2018; Sadeh et al.,
2016). The developmental change from co-regulation to self-regulation (see Sameroff,
2010) may thus require a longer period of co-regulation when living under stress. Thus, if a mother in the high-exposure group does not respond immediately to her child’s needs, the child may not be able to independently cope with distress without support, as seen in elevated levels of behavior problems. Our results corroborate the ideas of Feldman and Vengrober (
2011), who suggested that avoidance behaviors in children growing up in an armed-conflict context may indicate that the mother failed to contain the child’s anxieties, resulting in behavior difficulties.
Yet, the question arises whether these patterns of regulation and dependency between mothers and children are adaptive over time, or might increase the risk for developmental difficulties in later stages of development. This question is particularly salient when children are exposed to risk during the separation-individuation stage (Mahler & La Perriere,
1965), at the age of 1–3 years (as in the current sample). The main developmental task of children around this age is to develop independence. Studies on infants and toddlers exposed to trauma indicate that the external risk may interfere with the development of trust and autonomy (Slone & Mann,
2016). Thus, whether maternal behaviors of immediate reaction to a child’s cry, which seems to be related to better child adjustment during the age of 1–3 years, may have some negative consequences in the future, remains to be tested. More specifically, will children in the high-exposure group exhibit more dependency on their caregivers as they get older? Further longitudinal studies are required to track these developmental paths.
When discussing the complex situation in the Gaza vicinity, cultural features of the population should be taken into consideration. Most families living in this area identify as Jewish-Israeli, and some of the families reside there out of choice. Families living in the Kibbutzim often describe the quietness, beauty, and serenity of this region during calmer times. Such attitudes may interact with exposure to threat, and potentially be a buffer, influencing how they psychologically react to the chronic stress they experience due to the ongoing conflict in the region. Understanding and respecting these cultural perspectives are essential when considering interventions and support mechanisms for these families facing such challenging circumstances. In addition, due to the nature of the study’s population the findings of the present study may not be generalized to other populations suffering from armed conflict until replicated. That is, on the one hand, the current sample is characterized overall as a typical sample within the Israeli population. On the other hand, these families have been suffering from prolonged exposure to threat and experience chronic stress due to other aspects of their demographics.
Limitations, Future Directions, and Clinical Implications
This study offers new insights into pathways through which chronic exposure to armed conflict may relate to early mother-child relationships and development. Nonetheless, several limitations should be acknowledged. First, the current study is a cross-sectional study and therefore it is difficult to infer causality. Although we had theoretically-sound reasons to infer directionality, it is possible that child behavior difficulties are those that led mothers to perceive child cry in a more detached manner, as seen by a slower reaction, or that other factors intervene and affected the results. Replicating these findings in a longitudinal design would enable a deeper understanding of these links. Second, the sample size may be considered relatively small, especially in the high-exposure group, which may have impacted our ability to detect smaller effects. Third, this study referred to a group of mothers who had experienced chronic stress for many years, not only as a result of the auditory stress of the alarms, but also due to living in an active armed conflict zone. Thus, in future research it is important to examine additional aspects of objective and perceived stress and exposure and their effect on mothers’ perception and responsiveness to child cries.
Finally, it is important to note that this study had some specific characteristics that may limit generalizability to other populations: high-exposure families were living in a specific area, all mothers had only one child, and all were pregnant with their second born. Although group differences are not likely to be explained by pregnancy (given all mothers in both groups were pregnant with their second born), generalizability to non-pregnant mothers may be limited given the hormonal fluctuations that may affect pregnant women’s mood, social behavior, and emotional responses (Li et al.,
2020). Future studies should replicate these findings with additional populations living under other types of chronic stress, and among pregnant and non-pregnant mothers, as well as fathers, to test whether they can they be generalized for other caregivers under other risk conditions.
Despite these limitations, the findings of the current study have clinical implications for working with families experiencing chronic war-related threat and developing interventions. Alongside emotional treatments given to children and adults separately, interventions focusing on early parent-child relationships may also assist in supporting child adjustment and mental health. Specifically, working with mothers and expectant mothers assisting interpretations of child cries and behavioral responsivity to crying may facilitate co-regulation and thereby alleviate child behavioral problems in response to chronic stress while living in a threatening environment, and potentially assisting the child in developing their own capacity to regulate and deal with the situation as they grow older. In families expecting a new child, planning ahead to ensure the availability of a caregiver to support the older child under distress (e.g., extended family or friends) may be especially beneficial for coping.
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